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Coconut Oil – Good For Your Heart, Your Mind

September 10, 2013 By Your Next Move

coconutWhat once was thought to contribute to heart disease, Coconut oil is now considered heart-healthy. A recent posting on the Dr. Oz website, written by to Pina LoGiudice ND, LAc, Siobhan Bleakney, ND, and Peter Bongiorno ND, LAc, Co-Medical Directors of Inner Source Health in New York, coconut oil has many health benefits.

  • Aid our body’s resistance to certain viruses and bacteria that can cause illness.
  • Fight against yeast, fungus and candida.
  • Control thyroid function, boost metabolism
  • Improve our body’s insulin use
  • Increases digestion
  • Lowers cholesterol
  • Balances weigh grain by leading to efficient burning of energy.
  • Can actually help our bodies reduce the need for antioxidant intake.
  • Organic coconut oil is a natural skin and hair moisturizer
  • Tasteful, healthy cooking ingredient
  • Aid in the slowing of the progression of dementia

Researches in the field of Nutrition believe that coconut oil could provide some cognitive benefit to people with Alzheimer’s through ketone bodies, the biological byproducts of the coconut oil in the digestion process and an alternate fuel source for brain cells when glucose isn’t efficiently absorbed – which is what happens in Alzheimer sufferers. Our bodies don’t usually churn out many ketone bodies on its own. However, using coconut oil may produce a temporary state of hyperketonemia—significantly elevating the number of ketone bodies in a person’s blood stream.

As with any untested, unproven treatment options, it’s important to consult your own doctor before beginning a regimen on your own. Remember, coconut oil is a saturated fat and the FDA cautions people to keep their consumption of saturated fats to a minimum. Too much saturated fat can lead to high levels of “bad” (LDL) cholesterol and an increased risk for developing heart disease.

Your Next Move can help you locate the perfect senior housing for your aging loved one. Our team of relocation specialists are also with you through every step of the transition process including home sale, downsizing, estate sales and moving household goods.

This blog post is brought to you by the team at Your Next Move. If you are interested in further information you may contact us below. LIKE us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter to get the most current communication on the subject of senior relocation. Please join our mailing list.

Your Next Move, Easing Your Senior Transition
Julie Kopetsky, President
www.yournextmovenc.com
919-601-8203
Julie.kopetsky@yournextmovenc.com

Filed Under: Senior Living and Transitions

A Lesson from the Elderly: Live An Authentic Life Now

August 27, 2013 By Your Next Move

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Have you ever asked yourself, what am I supposed to be doing with my life? Instead, according to Kathleen Taylor, a licensed mental health counselor who spent much of her career working with hospice patients, we should be asking ourselves Who am I being with my life.

Throughout our lives we strive to reach an “ideal”, some standard that we think is expected of us. The elderly have it right, says Taylor. Those who are in the last chapter of their lives have reached a point where they stopped living for everyone else. We may lose our physical strength, and our mental abilities will diminish over time, but the power to continue to grow our souls, continues until we’ve taken our last breath.

Maybe it’s an overused cliché, to live everyday like it’s your last, but instead of creating a bucket list of exotic adventures, historic places to see, or people to shake hands with, create a single entry in your list – “live an authentic life”, and don’t wait until the dying process to tackle it.

Dying people teach us that it’s never too late to discard what’s false in our lives and to become the person we really are. Taylor says we should all say, it’s never too soon to find out who you really are. So why wait until we’ve reached the end of our life? Don’t look back with any regrets and find yourself at the end of your journey saying, “I wish I’d had the courage to live life true to myself and not the life others expected of me.”

Your Next Move can help you locate the perfect senior housing for your aging loved one. Our team of relocation specialists are also with you through every step of the transition process including downsizing, estate sales, moving household goods, and home sale.

This blog post is brought to you by the team at Your Next Move. If you are interested in further information you may contact us below. LIKE us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter to get the most current communication on the subject of senior relocation. Please join our mailing list.

Your Next Move, Easing Your Senior Transition
Julie Kopetsky, President
www.yournextmovenc.com
919-601-8203
Julie.kopetsky@yournextmovenc.com

Filed Under: Senior Living and Transitions

You Are Not Alone: Local Support Programs For Caregivers

July 23, 2013 By Your Next Move

Attendant comforting an elderly woman in a wheelchair. Image shot 2000. Exact date unknown.Taking care of an aging parent can be emotionally charged, financially burdensome and physically exhausting. The new reality is that family members play a major role in the long-term care of their elderly loved ones. According to the MetLife Mature Market Institute, 25 percent of adult children over 50 now provide personal and/or financial support to one or more parents. With those statistics, you know you’re not alone.

The National Family Caregiver Support Program (NFCSP), established in 2000, provides grants to States and Territories, based on their share of the population aged 70 and over, to fund a range of supports that assist family and informal caregivers to care for their loved ones at home for as long as possible.
The NFCSP offers a range of services to support family caregivers. Under this program, States shall provide five types of services:
• Information to caregivers about available services,
• Assistance to caregivers in gaining access to the services,
• Individual counseling, organization of support groups, and caregiver training,
• Respite care, and
• Supplemental services, on a limited basis

More than 1 in 10 family caregivers report that caregiving has caused their own physical health to deteriorate, so it’s important to recognize these warning signs and call ‘time out’ before you burnout. Support services have helped caregivers stay healthy longer by reducing caregiver depression, anxiety and stress by offering advice, understanding and valuable legal and financial resource information, all of which allows caregivers to be able to provide at home care longer.

Through the NFCSP program, the NC Division of Aging Adults Services administers North Carolina’s Family Caregiver Support Program through services provided by 17 area-focused Agencies on Aging. For the services offered in your particular area, visit http://www.ncdhhs.gov/aging/aaa.htm.
Your Next Move can help you locate the perfect senior housing for your aging loved one. Our team of relocation specialists are also with you through every step of the transition process including downsizing, estate sales, moving household goods, and home sale.

This blog post is brought to you by the team at Your Next Move. If you are interested in further information you may contact us below. LIKE us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter to get the most current communication on the subject of senior relocation. Please join our mailing list.
Your Next Move, Easing Your Senior Transition
Julie Kopetsky, President
www.yournextmovenc.com
919-601-8203
Julie.kopetsky@yournextmovenc.com

Filed Under: Senior Living and Transitions

5 Reasons You Need a Realtor to Sell Your Parent’s House

July 9, 2013 By Your Next Move

relocating2-300x199Unless you’re a professional house flipper or an experienced FSBOer, it’s not wise to try and sell your parent’s house by yourself. In today’s competitive housing market, where potential buyers have many options, it’s crucial to make sure your parent’s house stands out among the masses and you want to get the best price to help secure your parent’s long term financial and healthcare needs. Here are 5 reasons you should work with a Realtor to sell your parent’s house.

1. Price it Right. Knowledgeable, experienced Realtors know what the market is willing to pay for a home in your area. Your Next Move specializes in senior relocation and transition services and work with professional, results-oriented Realtors who will help determine a competitive cost analysis for your parent’s home. They also don’t just set you up with one Realtor, but two, who will provide you a price opinion on your house, then Your Next Move will review both options and help you select the agent who best suits your need. Realtors have up-to-the-minute access to market activity regarding prices, financing, terms and conditions of competing properties to help you avoid the dangers of overpricing, or underpricing, your parent’s home.

2. Marketing is Necessary. It’s not enough just to put a sign in your front yard; you have to treat your parent’s home like any other commodity on the market. Your Realtor does double-duty as a marketing representative, listing your house on the Multiple Listing Service (MLS) so hundreds of other Realtors have access to your home for their clients. They also host open houses and give you objective advice on home repairs and necessary upgrades, all to help improve the salability of the house. They also take advantage of trending social media outlets to promote your home like Twitter, facebook, and Pinterest.

3. Limit Your Liability. By going it alone, you may be opening yourself up to legal action if you unwittingly don’t disclose pertinent information about your property to potential buyers. Whether it’s crumbling foundations, environmental issues or other damage, a professional Realtor receives on-going training and certification, and are versed in the legality of disclosures that must be made to potential buyers.

4. Artful Negotiation. While it may be tempting to jump at the first offer and agree to a buyer’s contingencies, a Realtor is skilled in negotiating and can objectively help you navigate the Offer to Purchase contract without leaving any money on the table, unnecessarily.

5. Stay Safe. Hanging a For Sale by Owner sign in your front yard can also create safety concerns. Anyone can drive by, see your sign, and pretend to be a serious buyer, only to gain access to your home with ill-intentions. A Realtor meets with buyers upfront, often multiple times, and accesses whether they’re legitimate buyers with the financial resources to purchase a home before they ever bring them to view your property.

Your Next Move can help you locate the perfect senior housing for your aging loved one. Our team of relocation specialists are also with you through every step of the transition process including home sale, downsizing, estate sales and moving household goods.

This blog post is brought to you by the team at Your Next Move. If you are interested in further information you may contact us below. LIKE us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter to get the most current communication on the subject of senior relocation. Please join our mailing list.

Your Next Move, Easing Your Senior Transition
Julie Kopetsky, President
www.yournextmovenc.com
919-601-8203
Julie.kopetsky@yournextmovenc.com

Filed Under: Senior Housing and Life Choices, Senior Living and Transitions

Caring for Your Aging Parents, But Protecting Your Own Nest Egg

June 25, 2013 By Your Next Move

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College tuition. Retirement. Recession.

You have your own financial woes to think about, but now you have to worry about the possibility of helping finance your aging loved one’s long term care as well. At a time when the boomer generation is preparing for their own retirement, 20 percent of adult North Carolinians now find themselves personal and/or financial care providers to an adult parent for friend, possibly compromising their own nest eggs.

In a recent survey we cited, AARP estimates that family caregivers provided the equivalent of $450 billion worth of care to their adult parents, with women typically the family members who assist more in the caregiving responsibilities.

In addition to full time jobs and running their own households, caregivers spend an average of 20 hours per week caring for their loved ones. MetLife estimates those women who take off time from their jobs, take a leave of absence, or resign their positions all together, lose an average of $324,044 in lifetime wages, retirement fund and Social Security benefits.

The time is now – right now before a crisis happens that leaves you unprepared – to put a financial plan into place for the long-term care of your aging parents without placing a heavy burden on your own finances.

Here are some tips to start the planning process.

  1. Talk to you parents.

    Assess their financial situation and any preparations they’ve already made. Unfortunately many seniors have exhausted their retirement and the national drain on Social Security and Medicare has left individuals to personally pay for much of their long term health care.

  2. Do your homework.

    Get health care options and the costs for each one. Stay at home, assisted living, nursing home.

  3. Investigate if long-term care insurance is the right option.

    Long term care insurance isn’t always right for everybody, but don’t rule it out. Be a very careful shopper and make sure the terms and conditions are clear, that the policy offers extended coverage that includes assisted living residences and nursing home facilities. Financial experts suggest the monthly premium should not be more than five percent of your monthly income.

  4. Consider all financing options.

    Medicare does not cover long-term care, and in most cases, it does not cover home health care. Medicaid covers various types of care and services for those who fall below the poverty line, but many states are cutting back on Medicaid benefits. One financial resource that most often gets overlooked is VA benefits. If your loved one is a veteran or spouse of a veteran, the VA offers The Aid and Attendance (A&A) Pension that covers home health care like assistance in eating, bathing, dressing, or taking care of the needs of nature. It also includes care in assisted or independent living facilities.

  5. Consult a professional.

    Whether an attorney specializing in elder law, a financial planner, a certified senior advisor, or all of the above, get advice on long term care financial options, as well as advice on protecting your own savings.

Your Next Move can help you locate the perfect senior housing for your aging loved one. Our team of relocation specialists are also with you through every step of the transition process including downsizing, estate sales, moving household goods, and home sale.

This blog post is brought to you by the team at Your Next Move. If you are interested in further information you may contact us below. LIKE us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter to get the most current communication on the subject of senior relocation. Please join our mailing list.

Your Next Move, Easing Your Senior Transition
Julie Kopetsky, President
www.yournextmovenc.com
919-601-8203
Julie.kopetsky@yournextmovenc.com

Filed Under: Senior Living and Transitions

4 Ways to Cope with Your Aging Loved One’s Dementia-Related Irritability and Hostility

June 11, 2013 By Your Next Move

compassionFor our aging loved ones suffering with dementia, they can exhibit some outlandish behaviors associated with the condition, including irritableness, hostility and aggression. The challenging part is, you never know what to expect on any given day. Try a little patience, compassion, accommodation and flexibility to make your life as a caregiver, and your loved one’s dementia, a little less stressful.

How You Can Cope With Your Loved One’s Dementia

Patience

It takes a lot of patience to care for an aging loved one in general, but add the difficulties of dementia and you almost need to be a saint. The important thing to remember is loved one’s suffering with dementia may need things repeated several times, they may struggle with basic routines and become hostile with you or themselves. Take a deep breath, relax, don’t rush them. Your loved one can feed off your level of anxiety, making the situation exasperating.

Compassion

Often our loved ones with dementia walk a fine line between reality, or they remember their past so vividly yet have no perception of the present day. It’s easy for them to become confused and disoriented with time and place. Don’t try to correct them or push them to see your perception. Just offer them kindness and support and hug or two.

Accommodation

It’s a losing battle to try and control your loved one’s behavior, no matter how bizarre or unbalanced it seems to you. Whenever possible, learn to accommodate it. Within reason, make concessions and humor them.

Flexibility

It’s important to create a routine for loved ones with dementia to provide structure so it’s easier for them to establish daily living patterns. But know going in that environmental or other triggers can change behaviors so you’ll need to stay flexible and adjust schedules as needed.

Tips for Reducing Behavior Triggers

To help reduce irritable behavior in your loved one with mild to moderate dementia, the Family Caregiver Alliance offers these suggestions:

  • Reduce your loved one’s caffeine, sugar and junk food intake.
  • Reduce noise, clutter and the number of people in a room.
  • Maintain structure with daily routines.
  • Do not move household objects and furniture.
  • Display familiar objects and photographs for a sense of security and pleasant memories.
  • Use a gentle touch, soothing music, reading or walks to control agitation.
  • Keep dangerous objects out of reach.
  • Support your loved one’s independence by letting him care as much for himself as possible.
  • Acknowledge your loved one’s anger and let her know you understand her frustrations.
  • Distract your aging parent with a healthy snack or an activity. Don’t confront them, which can increase their anxiety; let them forget what triggered the episode

Above all, keep your sense of humor and learn not to take your loved one’s outbursts and demands personally. We know, easier said than done, but give it a try.

Your Next Move can help you locate the perfect senior housing for your aging loved one.

Our team of relocation specialists are also with you through every step of the transition process including downsizing, estate sales, moving household goods, and home sale.

This blog post is brought to you by the team at Your Next Move.

If you are interested in further information you may contact us below. LIKE us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter to get the most current communication on the subject of senior relocation.

Please join our mailing list.
Your Next Move, Easing Your Senior Transition
Julie Kopetsky, President
www.yournextmovenc.com
919-601-8203
Julie.kopetsky@yournextmovenc.com

Filed Under: Senior Living and Transitions

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